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Date:
31 Dec 2000
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I read your entry tonight (the latest message, unsigned) and my heart ached for your pain. Please don't let the sadness overwhelm you - reach out to someone, anyone, who can help you in your struggle and to get the help you need to overcome it. Suicide is not the answer. I know, beyond any doubt, that Adam regretted his decision, but was unable to understand that BEFORE it was too late. Please don't make that mistake. The pain you will leave behind is immeasurable to all those who love you. As is the case for so many, the pain of their loss never truly goes away. But what is even more surprising is that it reaches far beyond what you imagine possible, to touch the lives of more people than you think it ever would, and this website is proof of that. Please take care and be gentle with yourself, you and your life have VALUE and PURPOSE, so please don't throw it away. I can't "fix it" for you, but I am willing to listen, anytime. Love and namaste, Sue
Date:
30 Dec 2000
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I did not know Adam, but while visiting this page I could already see that he had a lot to offer this world. My sympathy is with the family of Adam. Suicide is a terrible solution but one that is always chosen. Sadly, my thoughts drift towards suicide a little too often. I wish you all the best and I'm sure Adam is with god and he is happy and content.
Date:
26 Dec 2000
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Hi I'm very sorry about your son. at one point I did 2 want 2 kill myself but first I thought of the possibilities in life. good luck 2 you and your family.
Date:
25 Dec 2000
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You have a wonderful site that serves a purpose in community. Thank you for caring so deeply !
Date:
10 Dec 2000
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My precious son AJ ended his own life on the 24/11/96 and reading your letter made me feel I'm not alone trying to overcome this never ending ache I have in my heart. I have felt guilty for so long but now realize I did the best I could at the time. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Sandra....Australia.....email.....marsc ... web.com.au
Date:
08 Dec 2000
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Susan, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. It's been alot of years but we used to play together when you would visit your grandmother Tombs in Oakville...I lived across the street. I was visiting my parents last night and she gave me your father's Xmas letter to read....such a tragedy....but out of every tragedy comes some good and I believe your website is it...if it helps only one child it has been a success. I'll leave my e-mail address for you...if you have a spare moment some time, I'd love to hear from you. Take care and god bless. Sherry Moulton (nee Waters) smoulton@comstockcanada.com
Date:
07 Dec 2000
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hello, my name is adrian and im writing from roy,washington,its a small town. Im writing to say i know the pain you felt. when i was 16teen my step father did away with him self. at time i did cry and feel shocked. i believe my grieving period has last long than anyone would expected, i say this because i find myself crying and, now i feel its almost my fault, i know its not ,i just want him to hold me and tell me its not my fault. And theres times in my life where he has been in my dreams talking to me, telling me its not fault, i wish for these dreams every night just so i can see him, even though i know his spirit is setting here watching me type this, i miss his voice.im so sorry to here hear of your great lose, i know the pain and i hope you know his is always next to you. adrian
Date:
22 Nov 2000
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Hey I'm 13 years old. I was just looking at web pages and i came upon yours. I find it very dedicating and i also know what kind of pain your experiencing. I know that you may think that your grief is endless but I know that you will find it in your hearts to get over it and move on. I also know that u might misinterpret the last sentence and I'm very sorry if I wrote that wrong. Well i must go now.

Buh~byez luv yaz CiNdI
Date:
16 Nov 2000
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sorry about your loss
aaron biley virden manitoba canada aba@mb.sympatico.ca
Date:
14 Nov 2000
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My apologies, Wendy. I neglected to add my email address. suek54@hotmail.com
Date:
14 Nov 2000
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My most heartfelt sympathies go out to you, Wendy. As I have no mailing address to contact you directly I can only hope that you found some comfort from our website, and possibly some help in dealing with your overwhelming grief, and that you may return and see this message posted to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers and if I can be of any assistance, in any way, please feel free to contact me directly. Support for any and all survivors is equally important to us, and part of the hope we have for this site is to try and bring comfort to them as well. Take care of yourself and your little one, you are important to more people than you know. Love and namaste, Sue (Adam's Mom)
Date:
14 Nov 2000
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Hello, My name is Wendy- on May 16th, 2000 my step-father took his life. As you I'm sure will understand I am overwhelmed with grief. I am 23 with a 2 year old child and feel as if I have lost all meaning in this world.
Date:
13 Nov 2000
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To the family and friends of Adam, I just want to say I am touched by your story, and I am deeply sorry for what you have faced. Although I do not know what it is like to be in your situation, I understand the grief that you have encountered. I hope you know Adam is in a better place now. I will pray for all of you, I wish you the best, in Christ, Jesse Harris jchc4ever@hotmail.com
Date:
26 Oct 2000
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this is a very beautiful page for adam and his family. i am very sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you all. chrissie CCyntek@aol.com
Date:
21 Oct 2000
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Dear Adam To Bob and Sue Love from Rachel Kitchener Park Ave Kitchener Ontario
Date:
21 Oct 2000
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Right now I just want to send my love to Uncle Bob, Aunt Sue, Meghan, Lori, and Adam. I want to wish God's blessing for all of you, for all of us, through this time of sorrow. I know we are blessed because of our special family and friend's. I want to express thanks to everyone who has visited and will visit Adam's website. Adam you will be never be forgotten, you were always loved and always will be. Love Marci!
Date:
20 Oct 2000
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I would like to say that this website is the best thing I have ever seen in my life. Not only does it share thoughts and feelings of so many people but it also provides the opportunity to help others in need. I only wish I could express my gratitude to the inventors of this page personally. Also to the Kavelman family for having the strength and courage to share there tragedy with the world and to open their hearts to help others. Thank you for helping me through rough times, this website is truly a gift. From: Grateful/Amherstburg
Date:
16 Oct 2000
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Hey Hey! I hope God blesses ya!
Date:
15 Oct 2000
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Hi, we are very sorry to here about Adam. We found out about Adam when my wife & I went shopping at Au Cotton. My wife was buying some sale items, when I said to the clerk that it was to try and cheer my wife up because we had just lost our son Jeff on Sept 12 /2000, by suicide. It just so happened that this clerk was your daughter, Meghan. Our son's depression started when he was about twelve. He was also a fantastic artist. He was the top of his class right through to grade 8. We know how your family is feeling. Jeff was 18 on April 23 / 2000. You're daughter, Meghan, is a real sweetheart. We would like to keep in touch. Our names are Tom & Judy Ferri,  phone 839-5882. Our e-mail is ferri@mnsi.net
Date:
14 Oct 2000
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Hi my name's Adam too! Well I just wanted to say GREAT PAGE!!! E-mail me at asb1987@crosswinds.net